The debate around the question of loneliness can take many shapes and forms. Ever since the pandemic hit, we are talking about isolation and the difficulty in returning to the previous normal of human relationships. Another facet of the discussion is how technology is supposed to bring us together yet makes us feel more disconnected […]
New Year’s Eve has come and gone, and with its passing arrived January. All our social media news feeds have been filled with “New Year, New Me” posts, people’s New Year’s resolutions, 2024 action plans, planned milestones and goals for the past 11 days, and craze is only now slowly dying down. If you’re still looking […]
Have I lost my wanderlust?
These days, it seems like everybody is travelling. Whether it’s a weekend getaway to a nearby seaside town or a three-month backpacking trip around Asia, everyone is on the go. I’ll go one step further and dare say that travelling might be one of the most widely mentioned hobbies by people (especially on dating sites). […]
Dare to embrace mediocrity
The way things stand today, being common, ordinary, average or mediocre is considered almost worse than not doing well at something. These words have gained a pejorative meaning and many of us would do anything not to be called mediocre. I, however, think that we should all dare to embrace mediocrity. Wherever we look, we […]
What’s your legacy?
As we go about our busy lives filled with the hustle and bustle of our day-to-day, we rarely get a minute to ourselves to reflect on deeper matters. If we are not rushing around between work and family obligations, workouts and social commitments, we are using the little free time we have for simpler pleasures […]
Feeling stuck (?)
There are moments in life when, despite all your efforts and ambitions, you feel, well, stuck. Although you rationally know that these rough patches cannot possibly last forever, it may easily seem that there’s no moving on to the next stage, that things may never get better and that all the time and energy you’ve […]
New chapter, same book
If you’ve been reading this blog for some time, you know how important the topic of growth and progress is for me. I have talked about it in countless different ways, from emphasizing the pain of the process to mentioning concrete steps one can take to make their own path. What I think we still […]
It’s not personal
One of the most famous quotes in the 1972 classic The Godfather (besides “I’m gonna make him an offer he can’t refuse”) is “It’s not personal, Sonny, it’s strictly business”, a line delivered brilliantly by Al Pacino in this very scene. Although the implications of that phrase in the movie include murder and its cover-up, […]
Know thyself!
In the last couple of decades, self-knowledge has become a hit. A plethora of books, podcasts, talks, news articles and trainings have been launched, all of them with the same goal: to help today’s modern human get to know themselves for a happier, more successful, more fulfilling life. And while many think that this is […]
Thoughts on solving problems
From a very young age and throughout our lives, we are expected to find solutions to problems of varying levels of complexity, from colour-coded puzzles to optimising work processes. We are taught to look at an issue, analyse it and, in the shortest time possible, come up with a suitable answer to fix it. But […]